Losing is Winning

Ever wonder about your life? All the challenge in your life? All the competition you fought so far & all the outcome? We are the competitors as well as the audience in our life.

If you are the audience, well, lose and win doesn't affect you too much, it is just another person' lost. Maybe you feel even better & satisfied when you see the person your supported defeated his or her opponent(s). But, if you are the defeated opponent in the competition you followed so much, what will you do? What will happen?

Or do you ever join a competition? It is a tasty fruit to win the competition, but if you lose? Will the burden of losing affecting you greatly? How many time have you lost?

YA! It is about losing. Losing is not a monster, we have to confront lose, not by avoiding it, instead face it with courage. If we keep ourself from avoiding lose, we may not know our weakness at all, why we have lost. Then, daydreaming is a better solution.

A high soaring person who never has been defeated, will he be able to acknowledge his defeat and come back to fight? Is losing such a scary situation? Losing doesn't mean you will ever been defeated, yet it is just a process. Winning or losing is only a process. Nobody can forever stand taller than anyone else. When we know how to lose, then we already know how to win next race.

Therefore, losing a race will be a better solution sometimes. Knowing your weakness, yet still can enjoy the process, that is losing with honour.

i can't help when reading this newspaper article, losing sometimes is good. I doubt myself, whether i can admit my defeat, if i really come to that day. Lee Chong Wei lose his Malaysian Badminton Open (20/1/2007). Best wish to Chong Wei, as he continues to bring glory to country. Losing makes him see clearer than anyone else.